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Yes, Black Belt SelfConfidence was and is KEY to coming out on top. And it lies within you RIGHT NOW!I'm just glad that not one of those Ten guys I had to face were Black Belts! The outcome would have probably been VERY DIFFERENT. Here's what happened, my sons and I were going into a store after seeing a movie one night. A group of young men were hanging around the front of the store and as we approached I heard all manner of cursing and swearing and I knew if I could hear it that the children could too. I want to be calm but it was just too much. Now,I teach my kids not to say any "Big Boy Words." So,I knew I could not just ignore it. Being a Dad and a Black Belt Instructor, I have learned that what you DO carries a vast amount of weight over what you SAY, especially, with children. I immediately went up to the guys and told them that there were "little ears" around (there were other small children within ear-shot as well) and to CUT OUT THE CURSING! I fully expected to have a MAJOR CONFRONTATION, perhaps even combative, WITH ALL TEN of Them!
~Would You Have the Self Confidence to Have Done the Same??
~Could You Have the Self Confidence to Have Done the Same??
As I looked into the eyes of each one of them, they knew I meant business. They knew what they were doing was wrong and probably not what THEIR PARENTS would approve of. A few APOLOGIZED and the group went on their way. I didn't even have to get in a fighting stance! I prevailed by just having that Super Intense "I Will Not Lose" mindset and Self Confidence.
My Sons were AMAZED! Several of the parents of the children who were close by followed my sons and I into the store and thanked me for standing up to these guys. One man even told me, "Hey, I wish I could be as bold and self confident as you." WOW! I told them that I was just doing what a Dad does-- Living Up to My Children's Expectations ~~I think My Sons were Proud to be My Sons that Day~~
The point of this story is not to have everyone go around confronting people for cursing in public. I don't want anyone to get beat up or hurt even if you do know a few Self Defense or Karate Moves, TaeKwonDo or not. Some people may say this is foolish but when there is an opportunity to let your children actually SEE your Values in ACTION, that vision will stay with that child for a lifetime Good or Bad. In this case, for my sons, it was both. - The BAD action they observed was these guys loitering and cursing and being generally disrespectful to those around them.
- The reaction I had to the situation, "Practicing what I Preach" supplied the long lasting GOOD impression.
Now, I do use this story to vividly illustrate the REAL LIFE, POSITIVE IMPACT that TaeKwonDo has had on my life and now the lives of my children, building Self Confidence, Integrity, and Physical Fitness to name a few.
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